How do I tell my friends I’m a furry? I’m scared they might hate me….

Hi there! Sharing who you are with the world can feel really scary. It’s always your choice when, how, and who you tell. You might start with just one person - often someone who feels safe, open-minded, and supportive. Ask yourself: Who do I trust? Who has reacted kindly to others before? Who makes me feel comfortable being honest?

People’s reactions can vary. Some will respond with love right away. Others might need time to process. And sometimes, the reaction isn’t what you hoped for. It’s normal to worry about things changing or being treated differently.

If someone doesn’t respond well, that doesn’t mean you were wrong to share. You can give them time if you want, but your wellbeing comes first. Reach out to someone else you trust - a friend, family member, teacher, or support service - so you’re not dealing with it alone.

Most schools have a student-led pride initiative or club, where everyone’s welcome just as they are - we have Rainbow Rangi. Simply request to be added to the Team to get more info.

There’s no rush, and no right way to do this except the way that feels safest and most right for you. Arohanui xx.